How to Choose a Fleshlight: A Buyer's Guide

How to Choose a Fleshlight: A Buyer's Guide

It’s no secret that Fleshlight is one the largest and most popular sex toy empires in the world. And of course, a company this big is bound to have some options for its clientèle. And by "options," we mean OPTIONS – tons of them.

With so many enticing masturbation sleeves, it can be downright overwhelming for a first-timer to choose. Even if you're a veteran collector, the sheer number of options at your disposal can make selecting your next purchase difficult. 

confused man

Whether you're a first-time buyer or a veteran, unsure which Fleshlight to add to your collection next, this article will give you two simple steps to take so you can more easily decide which one to add to your checkout cart. 

Let's start shopping!

Step #1: Familiarize Yourself with the Fleshlight Catalog

With such a vast collection of male masturbators in our online inventory, we strongly recommend first doing your homework to fully understand what type of male masturbators we offer. 

To make this process as easy as possible, here is a simplified breakdown of the various types of Fleshlights we sell here in 2022.

Vaginal & Anal

With a couple of exceptions (which we'll cover), almost all Fleshlights will have one of two orifices to choose from: pussy and butt. 

pussy and butt fleshlight

As with nearly all Fleshlights, the toy has two parts: the interior SuperSkin sleeve and its outer case. The sleeve is soft and human-like, designed to give you a warm and realistic touch. Likewise, the outer protective case is made of sturdy and grippy material to improve handling and make storage easier.

Depending on the Fleshlight, it may also pack a combo of bumps, ridges, and various additional creative internal structures. These are meant to produce a unique combination of intense sensations to heighten pleasure during penetration. 

Fleshlight Girls

Fleshlight Girls are masturbators designed to replicate the vaginas and anuses of the world's most famous porn stars. And just like with real-life women, the internal sensation will vary from one girl to the other. 

fleshlight girl

Some Fleshlight Girl sleeves are tighter than others, while others are milder, enabling you to last longer. Every Fleshlight Girl sleeve comes packed with a never-before-seen unique interior texture, made explicitly for them and their toy. 

Fleshjack Boys

Fleshjack Boys are masturbators designed to replicate the backdoor orifices of the world's most famous gay male porn stars.

fleshjack boy

Using the same concept as the Fleshlight Girl lineup, we give every Boy's sleeve a unique, never-before-seen interior texture, made explicitly for them and their toy. 

Stamina Training Units 

The Stamina Training Unit Fleshlights are designed to support orgasm delay training. This collection of sex toys is built to closely replicate the actual sensation of intercourse with a realistically textured canal and ribbed walls.

stamina training unit fleshlights

As you enter the sleeve, your penis is hugged by a smooth yet bumpy, pillow-like texture. As you thrust, your penis is subjected to various compartments that are uniquely textured to get you to the point of no return. By focusing on your sensations, you may be ablel to learn when you're about to ejaculate and how to control them.


Our small, compact Fleshlights lineup is designed to be portable, travel-friendly, and easily concealed, hidden away from prying eyes.

portable quickshot fleshlight

Complete with their interior sensations, these masturbation sleeves are stimulating and an altogether different experience than what you'll find in our traditional full-sized Fleshlights. These Fleshlights include the Go, Quickshot, Flight, and Sex in a Can products.


Complete with a life-like orifice and tantalizing interior texture, this collection of textures gives you a clear view of everything as it's happening inside, which is great if that's something that excites you.

fleshlight ice

Pick one of these for a fully visible all-access experience.


Vibrating Fleshlights come with multiple bullet vibrators, which adds a little buzz to your experience. The sleeve is specially designed with pockets that hold the vibes firmly in place as you do the deed. 

fleshlight vibro

Moreover, all models pack include three bullet vibrators, which you can use at once, two at a time, or one at a time. The vibrations from the vibes are spread through your sleeve, and you'll feel each ridge and crest in the inner texture nibbling with excitement. Additionally, you can regulate the stimulation by choosing the number of vibes to slide into your toy.

Suction (Turbos)

All Turbos are designed without the standard anatomical orifice typically seen in most Fleshlights. Instead, these are equipped with a round, neutral entry. This lineup of Fleshlights is specially designed for men who want to replicate the intense suction sensations of oral sex. 

turbo suction fleshlight

Built with our patented "Turbo Tech" technology, these have multiple points of insertion and a tight, gripping, sucking sensation not felt in any of our other products - a unique experience!

FleshSkins Grip

One of our lowest-priced Fleshlights, the FleshSkins is the perfect alternative to standard solo masturbation and is a phenomenal way to spice up partner play.

fleshskins fleshlight  

With its neutral orifice and lack of outer case, you control the tightness and intensity of your masturbation experience with the stroke of your (or your partner's) hand, but with the skin-soft, intensely-textured Fleshlight material that the world already knows and loves.

Step #2: Rank Your Wants and Needs

Now that you have a complete picture of what we offer think to yourself, "What are my top sexual desires right now?"

What have you been craving the most?

Maybe it's penetrating a gorgeous, realistic vagina, a slurping, deep-throat blow-job, or a squeezing tight anal romp? 

Are you a busy guy, frequently on the go? 

Do you live alone and have a lot of privacy, or do you live with family or roomies? 

To get started, take out a notepad.


Jot down the specifics of what you want and need based on your needs and current living situation.

Rank your top priorities and characteristics (tightness, stimulation, compact design, etc.) that are most important to you.

Don't overthink it.

Now, reduce everything down to 3 qualities. 

For example, you might have concluded that you're wanting something that is:

Portable, Affordable, and Highly Stimulating.

Knowing this, you can more easily decide which products to consider for your next purchase.

Here are a few quick "best of" categories to get you started in your research: 

Tightest Fleshlights:

  • Fleshlight Girl / Fleshjack Boy Butt Textures

  • Fleshlight GO Series

Best Suction Fleshlights:

  • Turbo Series

Best Compact Fleshlights:

  • Quickshot Series

  • GO Series

  • Flight Series

Most Stimulating Fleshlights:

  • Stamina Training Unit Series

  • Fleshlight Girl "Lady" Textures

Pro Tip: Use our website's search bar for quick and easy Fleshlight research.

fleshlight search bar

Step #3: Research Your Favorite Fleshlight Girls (or Boys)

While many men will know precisely what they want the most, many of us cannot nail down the specifics off the top of our heads. 

Sometimes, when it comes to sex, we're more visual rather than logical creatures.  

So, if you make it to this point and are still unsure which direction you're leaning, consider choosing your Fleshlight purchase based on your favorite Fleshlight Girl (or Fleshjack Boy). 

fleshlight girls

Of course, every model has a sexually satisfying Fleshlight texture if you were to be using it entirely on its own. But there's no question that it can also be psychologically quite satisfying to watch your favorite adult model's stunning performances while you enjoy her signature Fleshlight.

With dozens of diverse models to choose from, you're sure to discover one that you can't resist wanting to stick your dick inside.

Click here to browse our Fleshlight Girl collection and here to shop our Fleshjack Boys.

Step #4: Consult the Experts

You should now have at least one to three Fleshlights that you're strongly considering. You have two options here. You can either: 

  1. a) Buy them all at once.

  2. b) Purchase just one.

If you're taking the latter, more conservative option, your best next move is to take your questions to Reddit's official Fleshlight group - the largest Fleshlight community online (over 40,000 members).

fleshlight reddit

Click here to join. 

Once there, share which Fleshlights you have narrowed your decision down to and ask for their advice. This passionate group of collectors and first-timers is known for its warm, helpful, and knowledgable members, eager to help one another with their sex toy investment. 

We sincerely hope this Fleshlight Buyer's Guide proved to be a helpful tool in your shopping process. If you ever have a specific question about our products, please feel free to contact customer support or our marketing team via social media. 

Until next time!

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