Welcome to a new segment of Girl Chat. Today, Fleshlight Girl Janice Griffith offers us her experienced advice for the ladies.
Feel free to tune in to the interview below or simply continue reading for a breakdown of what Janice had to say during the filming of this segment.
Tip #1: Take Care of Your Vagina
Ladies, this first tip is simple, straightforward, and extremely important to your partner when it comes to intimacy in the bedroom.
So, how does one know if their pussy smells or tastes bad?
“If you want your vagina to taste good, taste it yourself. If you don't like it, your partner probably doesn't like it either.”
Second, Janice encourages all women to take the initiative “to learn about things like Bacterial Vaginosis, B.V., yeast infections, and your general P.H. balance.”
“Wear cotton underwear, too.”
All the stuff that your sex-ed teacher didn't teach you that they really should have.
Tip #2: Don’t Submit to Pressure
Second, Janice encourages all women to not “feel pressured to please your partner if it makes you uncomfortable. It's totally ok to set boundaries.”
Janice goes on to urge you ladies to keep this in mind.
“If he doesn't respect them, he doesn't respect you. And you deserve that respect and your body, your choice.”
Bottom line, ladies: You're allowed to make the rules that other people have to follow.
Stand up for what you want and communicate your boundaries with your partner for a happy and healthy relationship.
Tip #3: Voice What You Want
Don't be afraid to ask for what you want, including not being afraid to bring toys into the bedroom.
“Sex toys don't have to take away from our sex life and they don't have to compete with your partner. If anything, you guys are on the same team of, you know, achieving community pleasure.”
Here at Fleshlight, we offer a variety of fun, partner-based, sex toys that you can experiment with.
“If you don’t like it, that’s ok, but I have a strong feeling that a lot of you will enjoy it.”
Tip #4: Improve Period Sex
Many women (and men) become a little squeamish when it comes to period sex.
It’s ok, we get it. However, Janice Griffith says that “period sex doesn't have to be gross.”
“There are a lot of tools out there now that can help alleviate the bleeding and make it ‘cleaner’.” Look into these. Do your research!
If your partner is a little particular about it, you guys can experiment and work up to having the period sex.
Despite some people seeing it as a negative, bear in mind that orgasms help with period cramps.
Give it a shot!
Tip #5: Use Setting Spray
Finally, Janice touches on the subject of makeup during sex.
“Before sex, use a setting spray and your makeup will last longer. Also, you can use hairspray as a replacement for setting spray, too. Just make sure to hold your breath and close your eyes.”
And, ladies, in case you’ve been looking for it, there is (as of 2020) no true blowjob proof lipstick.
Sorry to disappoint you.
We hope you enjoyed this segment of Girl Chat with Janice Griffith.