Dating Advice with Riley Reid

Dating Advice with Riley Reid


For this segment of our Dating Advice series, we had a one-on-one chat with the world-famous pornstar and Fleshlight Girl, Riley Reid. Check out the following video or keep reading to see what she has to share with you.

Tip #1: Stop Playing Games

For starters, Riley is adamant about us all “stop playing games with each other!” and instead pleads that you “just be your free, most honest self.”
So, how can we do this exactly?  
Reed believes that we all need to be better communicators from the get-go.

“Respond to those text messages. Don't fucking wait five minutes, 10 minutes, three days. Just fucking get on it if you want it.” 

"It’s ok to show that you’re interested."

Be vulnerable. It's OK to put yourself out there and it's OK to be rejected.” 
At the end of the day, we all have to realize that we ALL have moments in life when we’re rejected. But that doesn't mean we should stop putting ourselves out there. 

It’s truly the only way to one day find the right person. 

Tip #2: Be Authentic

The next bit of dating advice that Riley offers is that you “should always remain true to yourself.” 

This might sound like a no-brainer but far too often in life, we have a tendency to adapt ourselves to our partner or lover. 

Riley encourages you to “always be your truest, most honest self.” Because in the end, it'll get you the furthest; you'll be the happiest, and it will help to ensure you and your partner will be genuinely meant to be together. 

Tip #3: Be Naughty

If you’ve ever seen one of Riley’s scenes, you know that she is no stranger to naughty behavior in the bedroom. She also encourages you to give it a shot in your personal life, too!

“Don't ever be afraid to get extra naughty, frisky, and spice things up in your sex life.” This could be anything from getting a fun sex toy, an outfit, or even a sexy mask. 

“I think that there are always fun things to do in your sex life that you maybe haven't tried before. And I think communication is a really big part of that.”

Bottom line: Change things up from time to time in the bedroom, but openly talk about it before and during the process.

Tip #4: Mix It Up

One of Riley Reid’s personal favorite bits of dating advice “is to kind of not have any gender roles” in the relationship. 

What she means by this is that, for example, ladies can buy dinner, open a door for a guy, and vice versa. 

“I want to also make sure that guys feel special and loved just as much as they go on their way to make sure I feel special in love.”

We can’t argue with that!

Tip #5: Simulate Threesomes

Finally, while she recognizes that “it can be hard to have threesomes, foursomes, or fivesomes in your sex life” so why not incorporate a

Fleshlight into the relationship and simulate this fantasy? 

Of course, when you do bring this “new girl” over for the two of you to share, make sure to name her Riley. Speaking of which, be sure to pick up your Riley Reid Fleshlight today!

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