3 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life in 2023

3 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life in 2023

If you've ever been in a long-term relationship before, you know that it can sometimes be hard to keep the spark alive – that goes double for your sex life. 

But fear not – this is quite normal for couples to go through, and there are a few simple steps you can take to spice things up to keep the fire burning. 

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In today's FleshLife article, we have a few suggestions you can use to reinvigorate your sex life here in 2023. Let's check them out!

#1 Change Things Up

It's time to get out of your comfort zone! 

Trying something new can be a great way to keep things spicy in the bedroom. Introducing sex toys, a new sex position (or two), or even throwing some roleplay into the mix can generate exciting energy, stoking the flames of passion.

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Whether it's something as small as blindfolding each other or switching roles for one night, pushing your boundaries can help you explore yourselves and bring some freshness to your intimacy. 

Best of all, the possibilities are truly endless! Why not have fun exploring?

#2 Indulge in Your Sexual Fantasies

Don't be afraid to discuss your sexual fantasies with your partner. Fantasizing about something is half the fun; sharing those fantasies with your partner is the other half. 

Talk openly about what gets you hot and see if your other half is open to making some of these dreams a reality.


Discussing these fantasies can aid you in letting go and fully expressing yourself in the bedroom, enabling you to explore something new that neither of you has done before. Plus, it will bring you closer and deepen your sexual connection. 

So why not break out of your typical routine, talk through your sex dreams, and see where it takes you? 

#3 Make time for sex

Many of us who've partaken in a long-term relationship know that sex can start to feel like just another chore in our busy lives.

And it's understandable - as adults, we're inundated with obligations that have us stretched thin between our career, home, and many other commitments we might have. 

That's why it's essential to carve out some time for sex even when you're super busy - having a sex life can help keep you connected and reignite the spark that was there when your relationship was new. 

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It doesn't have to be hours at a time, but once a week, try to put everything else aside and focus on each other. You'll be glad you did! 

Even half an hour set aside each week for intimacy can strengthen your love life, increasing your physical and mental health in the process. 

If you're looking for a clear-cut first step to begin spicing things up in the bedroom, why not start by checking out our enormous online catalog of sex toys? 

Whether you're searching for toe-curling vibrators, realistic Fleshlights, or a couples-friendly male masturbator, we've got you covered. Shop our collection of premium-quality sex toys today! 

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