Maximize Your Pleasure: How To Use a Pocket Pussy

What Are Pocket Pussies?

If you’re new to the world of sex toys, welcome! We understand you probably have some questions, such as, “What exactly is a pocket pussy?” Pocket pussies are a magical (and highly popular) sex toy for people with penises. Essentially, they are small, handheld synthetic vagina massagers used to stroke and stimulate the penis.

These intriguing sex toy strokers mimic the feeling of a real vagina. They’re often designed from a soft rubber material such as TPE, silicone, or Fleshlight’s patented 100% phthalate-free SuperSkin™ material. You can enjoy comfort and ease of use all in one toy.

A pocket pussy has a hole at the base where the penis can be inserted, and this hole is made to fit snugly around the penis to increase blood flow and promote pleasure. Along the canal's walls, you’ll feel different textures added to maximize that pleasurable feeling. 

And if you’re into anal sex, you’re in luck! These masturbation devices don’t just have to simulate vaginas. Anal masturbators mimic pocket pussies, but the hole resembles an anus instead. 

Furthermore, some are shaped as mouths so you can receive an unmatched oral sex feeling. Now you can get a blowjob without a partner! These different types of pocket pussies can be used as masturbation sleeves for some quality alone time.

As you begin your masturbation journey with pocket pussies, you’ll probably want to know how to use it. In this article, we’ll cover everything you need to know to make the most of your realistic pocket pussy. 

 

How To Prep Your Pocket Pussy

When you are ready to use your pocket stroker, there are a few things you can do to increase the sexual pleasure you’re hoping for.

Warm Up the Toy

Warming your pocket pussy isn’t required. But trust us, you’ll want to take this extra step. Heating up the sleeve of the pocket pussy enhances the lifelike feeling of being in a vagina and increases the longevity of your toy.
To warm your toy, you can either:

• Use the warm water method. Run the sleeve under warm water and slide your finger inside to check for the optimal temperature. Make sure you don’t turn it too hot—you don’t want to burn your sensitive skin down there. 

Use the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer. Simply plug in the sleeve warmer, put some water-based lube inside, and gently slide it onto the rod. Let it heat for 10-15 minutes, and you’re ready to go!

Invest in a Quality Lube

For most pocket pussies, including the Fleshlight, you will want to purchase a high-quality personal lubricant. Be sure to get water-based lubricant to avoid damaging your pocket pussy! Not to mention that water-based lube is great for heightening your pleasure and achieving a better orgasm.

By prepping your pocket pussy, you can make it feel just like the real thing!

How To Use a Pocket Pussy: Step-By-Step Instructions

Once your pocket pussy is ready to go, it’s time to play! Follow these simple instructions to have an epic masturbation session.

1. Lube It Up

The slipperier, the better, You will want to use a water-based lube to wet your penis before thrusting into your new pocket pussy. Going in dry can cause major chaffing and discomfort, so we recommend wetting the top half of your member at a minimum. 

And if you haven’t already, squeeze some lube onto your fingers and dig into the opening of your toy (about 3 inches inside). Rub around inside with your fingers to evenly distribute the lube.

2. Take It Slow

Treat the pocket pussy as if you were having sex with a partner—don’t just shove it in there. Smoothly insert the head into the opening of the pocket pussy and work the rest in slowly. Stroke your penis slowly inside the pocket pussy to disperse the lube fully before going hard (if that’s what you prefer!).

3. Do It Your Way

Once you feel like the canal is wet enough, you can start to thrust at your own speed. Do whatever makes you feel good. Speed up your movements if you’re just in for a quickie or take it nice and easy for a longer-lasting session. 

Try adjusting your grip on the sex toy to find what feels best, or consider investing in a launch device for hands-free pleasure. Your pocket pussy is at your disposal, so use it however you please! 

4. The Big Finish

When you’re close to ejaculation, be sure to squeeze the exit of your toy shut (if it is open-ended) to keep all of the jelly in the jar. Close your eyes, lean back, and enjoy your grand finale.

5. Clean It Up

After you’ve caught your breath, it’s time to clean up! To clean your Fleshlight pocket pussy, remove the sleeve from its hard case, fill it with warm, soapy water, block the open end, shake it up, and rinse it one more time.

Then be sure to wash the hard case as well and spray both the case and sleeve with an antibacterial cleanser or your favorite sex toy cleaner. Don’t dry them with a towel to avoid lint. Let the pieces air-dry before the next use.

 

Tips for Maximizing Pleasure With Your Pocket Pussy

To experience the power of a pocket pussy, follow these tips for maximizing pleasure. The key is to try different combinations until you find what you like the most!

When masturbating with a pocket pussy, here are some tips to consider:

Try different speeds. Switch up the speed of your stroking to enhance your session. If you haven’t tried edging, we highly recommend this method. Start out slow and increase your thrusting until you are close to the edge, then pull back and slow down again. This is a great way to last longer and get the orgasmic feeling of nearly hitting your peak multiple times.

Use different positions. Just like with a partner, one position isn’t always the most interesting. Be creative and try different sex positions to find what creates the best stimulation. This is a great opportunity to practice positions you aren’t as confident about with a partner.

• Try it hands-free. By using a sex machine combination like a Fleshlight and a hands-free mount, you can elevate your experience. The best part? Our hands-free mounts vary in style and purpose. From a slippery good time in the shower to the Liberator: Top Dog, these mounts increase pleasure and keep things fun!

Keep trying. Just like any adult toy, it may take a few times before you get the hang of things. You may not experience an explosive orgasm the first time you try, but after a few uses, we’re sure you will find your knack. For stamina training, try using your non-dominant hand or play with your balls simultaneously.

Use it without the case. While it is recommended to use the case with your pocket pussy, try using it without the case for a different feeling. Your pocket pussy can be used both with and without the case.

Discover Your Next Solo Sesh BFF With Fleshlight

Now that you know how to use a pocket pussy, it’s time to find your dream toy. At Fleshlight, we have the best pocket pussy toys that will become your new favorite male sex toy.

With discreet shipping and billing, you can feel comfortable that no one will catch onto your purchase.

Be sure to check out our Pornstar Fleshlights to find your favorite adult entertainer. You won’t have to wonder what her treasure trove feels like with these realistic vagina replicas.  

From the Quickshot to the Classic Fleshlight, we have the pocket pussies you need for the best solo sesh. Browse our male masturbation toy selection now!