Did you know that the male sex has a special surprise in their rectum? It sounds unbelievable, but it’s 100% true. It’s called the prostate gland, and it lives right by the rectum.
A simple prostate massage can take you from zero to powerful ejaculation in no time. It’s an excellent method of getting off. In this article, we’ll explain what the p-spot is, how to get those nerve endings firing, and the best methods for prostate-related anal play. Let’s start prostate milking to reach the ultimate sexual pleasure!
What is the Prostate?
Basically, the prostate is a gland in the male reproductive system that produces a fluid that mixes with your sperm, making seminal fluid. It replicates a walnut in size and shape and surrounds the urethra (the little tube the bladder uses to empty urine). The prostate, located in the front of the rectum, sits between the bladder and the scrotum.
The prostate’s secretion is vital in sexual function, specifically in reproduction. Plus, the gland is surrounded by nerve endings, making a prostate massage a great form of masturbation.
Who Can Enjoy a Prostate Orgasm?
As hinted, a prostate orgasm isn’t possible for everyone. Only people born with the XY chromosomes have a prostate (also known as the male g-spot or p-spot), and only this sex can experience the fantastic sensations of prostate stimulation and the famous prostate orgasm.
Unfortunately, some men do lose this gland to prostate cancer, benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), or unrelenting chronic prostatitis. Prostate cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death in males. BPH results in enlargement or inflammation of the prostate and may require prostate removal. Chronic prostatitis is similar to lower urinary tract symptoms and can be incredibly painful.
This walnut-sized gland offers tons of pleasure and sexual stimulation. Still, it’s essential to go to your doctor immediately if you notice symptoms related to any of the above conditions. The health benefits of treating these conditions appropriately far outweigh the benefits of prostate full-body orgasms.
Don’t worry, though! These health conditions may be scary, but they are widespread and treatable. Monitor your physical and sexual health, see your doctor regularly, and you should be just fine.
The Perks of Prostate Orgasms
Prostate stimulation is usually designed to induce penile orgasms (which feels amazing, by the way). This form of prostate play also has some other legitimate benefits, like the ones below:
- Improve Erectile Dysfunction: Prostate play can help support other treatments for erection issues, like medication. This form of anal penetration can also turn you on in a big way, helping to get your dick hard and keeping it hard.
- Improve Urine Flow: Prostate-induced orgasms can relax your prostate and stop it from pressing on your urethra, allowing urine to flow uninhibited. You can experience a powerful orgasm and then finally take a piss!
- Prevent Prostatitis: In addition to antibiotics, a quality prostate massage and orgasm can help drain the prostatic fluid and treat prostatitis.
We also wanted to point out that a medical professional may use a clinical form of anal stimulation to test for specific medical conditions. So, just cross that bridge if you get to it.
Clearly, prostate orgasms are vital to men’s health and sex life.
Top Tips for a Mind-Blowing Prostate Orgasm
Let’s discuss the best tips and tricks for getting multiple orgasms via prostate stimulation. Read on to expand your anal sex horizons.
Keep It Slow and Steady
Any time you’re trying out a new sexual experience for the first time, it’s best to be careful. Since this involves going in the backdoor, slow and steady wins the race here.
We recommend getting some water-based lube on your finger and slowly rubbing it in before working your way into your butthole. The goal is to stretch your anal rings enough to slip a finger comfortably inside your rectum.
The entrance to your butthole is the tightest and narrowest part of your entire anal cavity, but boy can it stretch. Put in the time, and you’ll receive ample rewards.
Proper Hygiene is Key
It’s not a secret that your butthole gets rid of poop. Keeping everything clean is essential for avoiding infection in this delicate area. Use the following tips to keep everything hygienic:
- Do not engage in anal sex or prostate massages with an open wound in or near the rectum.
- Wash your backdoor hole and the surrounding areas with soap and clean water.
- Wash your hands and under your fingernails thoroughly.
- You can use an anal douche (also known as an enema) which cleans your rectum with sanitized water, but you don't have to.
- Eat a fiber-rich diet to ensure your bum is regularly emptying itself and there isn’t buildup in the rectum.
- Clean your fingers immediately after a prostate massage, or use an anal condom as a protective barrier.
Even after taking all of these steps, anal sex and prostate masturbation can get messy. That’s normal, and it’s totally okay. Take appropriate precautions, and you’ll be fine.
Experiment with Motions
Cracking the code to stellar prostate sensations can take some time. If you’re struggling to achieve orgasm, you or your partner can try different finger motions.
You can try the come hither motion, the doorbell (tapping), rubbing in different patterns, and thrusting, to name a few. You can also try adjusting between different speeds, pressures, and intensities.
It may take a while, but eventually, you’ll land on a motion that feels so good it makes your toes curl.
Introduce Sex Toys
Using your or your partner's finger to massage the prostate is a tried and true method; however, your finger will get tired, and sometimes you crave a little more. This is where anal sex toys come into play. These sex toys are a great way to reach that coveted P-spot.
Just ensure you go slow and thoroughly clean your toy before use. Also, there are tons of anal sex toys on the market right now. This can be a bit overwhelming, but just consider your and your partner's preferences, and don't be afraid to experiment with different anal toys.
Try New Positions
Just like any other form of sex, the prostate massage may feel loads better or be easier to achieve in different positions. Here are just a few positions you can try to get you started:
- Legs up (Ananda Balasana)
- Face down
- On hands and knees
- Propped up on a pillow
Different positions also lend themselves more to full-on anal sex. Chat with your partner beforehand and agree on a position you want to try out. Work your way through the different moves and discover brand-new sensations!
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