Getting Started: Best Vibrators for Beginners

Every expert was once a beginner. Becoming a self-love masturbation expert requires putting in those 10,000 hours, which is a pretty satisfying way to spend your evenings. 

We’re here to help you find the best vibrators for your first time and get the good vibrations flowing. Not every sex toy is built with the same quality and function, so in this article, we’ll give some tips on what to look for and discuss the best vibrators on the market now. Read on, get turned on, and discover the ideal first vibrator for you! 

Getting Started: What to Look For

Let’s first start by highlighting the features that beginners will want to look for in a vibrator, such as:

  • Body-safe silicone and other materials
  • Waterproof
  • Small size (if insertable) 
  • Strong battery life
  • Varying intensity levels
  • Quiet vibrations

There are more than a few types of vibrators available right now. Honestly, it can get overwhelming. Take a deep breath and get ready for pleasure. This article will help you discover the ideal whisper-quiet wand massager for your nighttime fantasies. 

First-timers should beware, though. Avoid cheap vibrators and dildos from places like Amazon. The premier beginner-friendly sex toys are found at reputable, sex-only companies (as in companies that focus on your pleasure).

You probably shouldn’t be getting your car parts, groceries, and sex toys all at the same place. Stick with the sex professionals for the ultimate experience. 

The Best Vibrators for Beginners

You want it? We got it. Here is the expert-crafted, comprehensive list of the top magic wands on the market. Check out all of our fantastic options and decide which toy your pussy can’t live without. 

Poppy Bloom Bullet Vibrator

Welcome to the wonderful world of the bullet vibrator. The Poppy Bloom Vibrator is a best-seller with adjustable vibration patterns and a compact size. 

The gorgeous vibrator is only 5.3 inches tall and has a max width of 1.5 inches. But don’t let its petite size fool you. Just because it fits in the palm of your hand doesn’t mean it’s weak. This discreet, ergonomic toy will send you into spirling pleasure. 

It’s easy to control, incredibly user-friendly, and won’t fill you up too much. 

Peony Bloom Rabbit Vibrator

This toy is a marvelous invention for anyone with a vagina. The Peony Bloom Rabbit Vibrator is the perfect choice for dual stimulation. It comes with three separate motors that can run together or be controlled independently. 


There’s one in the bunny ears, one in the silicone head, and one in the shaft. These different settings mean that you can have a buzzy toy thrusting into you and experience simultaneous clitoral pleasure. 

Plus, its rose-colored exterior is gorgeous and super easy to store. 

Tulip Bloom G-Spot Wand Vibrator

USB rechargeable, lengthy, and with a curved shaft, the Tulip Bloom G-Spot Wand Vibrator hits all the right spots. It’s easy to find a classic clitoral vibrator, but getting some premier G-spot action from a wand is tough. The Tulip Bloom will have you screaming from G-spot orgasms every single night. 

Plus, this wand is one of Fleshlight’s longest vibrators. It can reach up and knock on your cervix for some extra pleasurable sensations. You could even achieve a cervix orgasm. These are powerful, full-body orgasms that feel amazing. The aftershocks can even last for minutes. 

Lotus Bloom Palm Vibrator

Long distance is tough. You miss your partner’s company, and you miss out on all the stellar oral sex you were having. Enter the Lotus Bloom Palm Vibrator

This powerhouse little toy has five different vibration modes and yet is soft to the touch and delicate on your down-under. It’s perfectly designed for the ultimate clitoral suction and stimulation experience. 

Plus, at only 3.8 inches long by 2.4 inches wide, you can pop it in your underwear almost like a wearable, hands-free toy. 

Jasmine Bloom G-Spot Palm Vibrator

Wouldn’t it be nice to click a remote control for your pussy and immediately have a stunning orgasm? Owning a Jasmine Bloom G-Spot Palm Vibrator is kind of like that. 

This powerful toy teases your G-spot and your clit all in one session. Its curved design is perfect for stimulating your inner walls, and its compact size makes it easy to navigate around your clitoris. 

The Jasmine Bloom is the perfect size to keep in your bedside drawer and compact enough for travel. Not sure whether you’re more into internal or external stimulation? Start here to find out. 

Iris Bloom Power Rabbit Vibrator

Top-tier sexual wellness comes from the Iris Bloom Power Rabbit Vibrator. Just like the Peony Bloom Rabbit Vibrator, this rabbit wand is designed for dual stimulation. Plus, its curved shaft makes for some excellent G-spot pleasure. 

Most of our top vibrators, including the Iris Bloom Power Rabbit Vibrator, are USB-chargeable. This option offers stellar convenience and makes for uber fast charging. Here’s the best way to charge your toy: 

  1. Connect the cable adapter to the toy and the USB plug to a computer port. Ensure your computer is on for the charging duration.
  2. You should see a flashing light on your toy.
  3. The toy is fully charged once the light stops flashing and stays on.
  4. Remove the toy from the power source and start having fun.

Check the exact instructions for your specific toy, and always follow the retailers’ guidance. It’s best to follow the directions when it comes to sex toy care and safety. 

Best Practices for Beginners

Listen up, newbies. Your self-sex life is about to be revolutionized. From killer clitoral stimulation to wild G-spot stimulation, your new toy can do it all. 

Check out some of the top best practices for beginners and get the most out of your toy:

  • Start on a low setting: Some wands have intense vibration settings. Don’t start at the strongest; you'll rub your clitoris raw.  
  • Ensure proper hygiene/cleaning: The best sex toys still have to be cleaned regularly. An internal vibrator gets exposed to all the juices. You want it to be sparkling clean. 
  • Use for external stimulation: Your new toy offers different sensations for ultimate pleasure. Don’t be afraid to try teasing some erogenous zones or just your vulva with your toy. 
  • Don’t forget the lube: Your soft silicone toy requires water-based lube to get it ready for insertion, especially if you’re interested in a G-spot vibrator. 
  • Go slow: Don’t freak out if you don’t achieve mind-blowing orgasms on your first try. It takes time to get used to a new toy. Take things slow and have patience. You’ll be cumming like a champ in no time. 

Follow these top practices and let the powerful vibrations take your solo play to the next level. 

Begin Your Vibrator Journey with Fleshlight

The sexperts at Fleshlight are your solo pleasure educators. From cock rings to suction vibrators to perineum ticklers—we’ve got the knowledge you need. 

Our ultimate guide to vibrators is the perfect starting place when hunting for the perfect magic wand. Why settle for getting just one vibrator? Our toys have different qualities that make them ideal for select fantasies and sensations. 

Check out our entire line of toys and revolutionize your masturbation game.
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