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Buyer's Guide

Everything you wanted to know about the Fleshlight sex toy.

In an era where vibrators have been championed as a means for female sexual freedom and enjoyment, male sex products have remained something of a dirty, unwanted cousin to their female counterparts. By providing a quality, discreet, and tasteful product, we hope to change these perceptions and help bring the topic of male sexuality into the light of legitimacy and reason. With AIDS, violence, and unwanted pregnancy at epidemic levels, there is reason to be cautious. The Fleshlight sex toy will provide an outlet to express your fantasies and impulses in a safe, but highly pleasurable environment!

» Why should I buy a Fleshlight?
» What are the dimensions of the Fleshlight and the inserts?
» Help! I'm a first time buyer, what should I order?
» Which insert is right for me?
» Which insert best simulates real sex?
» I am a virgin. What do you recommend?
» I am uncircumcised. What do you recommend?
» What is the difference between the Fleshlights?
- Original
- Speed Bump
- Stamina Training Unit
- Super Ribbed
- Super Tight
- Wonder Wave
- Vortex
- Lotus

Why should I buy a Fleshlight?

Top five reasons:
Top 5 1. You're in control. Whenever you want, however you like, the Fleshlight sexual gratification alternative is there to fulfill your sexual fantasies and meet your desires.
2. Nothing is closer to the real thing. Our soft, pliable, non-vibrating SuperSkin sleeve has been designed to provide the most realistic intercourse simulation known to man.
3. Improve stamina & performance. Whether you're a real Casanova or just a rookie to the game, there is always room for improvement. Test your skills, practice new techniques, and test how long you can last in one of our specially designed inserts, created for maximum sensation.
4. Practice safe sex. The Fleshlight was created in part, to address the risks associated with promiscuity, the spread of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), and unwanted pregnancy. Whether you're having trouble finding a safe partner or waiting for the right one to come along, the Fleshlight offers a a safe and satisfying means for expressing your sexuality.
5. Lifetime of pleasure. With proper use and care, the Fleshlight will last you a lifetime. If only it were that easy with real sexual partners.

What are the dimensions of the Fleshlight and the inserts?

The Fleshlight case is approximately 10 inches (254 mm) in length and 4 inches (102 mm) in diameter at the larger end and 2-1/2 inches (63 mm) at the smaller end. The Fleshlight case is offered in black, blue, pearl, silver, white and clear.

Canal diameters and textures:
Original 3/4 inch (19 mm) smooth
Speed Bump 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
Stamina Training Unit 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
Super Ribbed 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
Super Tight 1/2 inch (13 mm) smooth
Wonder Wave 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
Vortex 1/4-3/4 inch (10-19mm) textured
Lotus (Standard FLG Texture) 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
Twista (Tera Patrick Exclusive) 1-1/4 inch (25-10mm) textured

Help! I'm a first time buyer, what should I order?

Option 1:
With nearly half a million sold, 90% of our customers start out with the Original Pink Lady.

Option 2:
The 3 for 2 offer is a great way for new customers to quickly try a variety of sex toy experiences. This offer takes the pressure off of having to decide on just one Fleshlight. If you are undecided between two insert types and don't know which to go with, then consider this offer. You can get both and a third one, for free! Mix and match the colors, orifices, and textures. This is also ideal for repeat customers who already have a case and want to experience the rest of the inserts. Consider choosing all ice inserts to help build your collection. Please note that this special offer does NOT come with any cases, you must purchase them separately.
Records show the most popular combo as:
Wonder Wave Pink Lady (intense)

Super Ribbed Mouth (extreme)
Super Tight Butt (extremely tight)

Option 3:
The Build Your Own is ideal for customizing your fantasy. Build Your Own allows the user to choose the color, orifice, and texture of their Fleshlight. This offer INCLUDES a case. The most popular combinations are the Wonder Wave Pink Lady and the Super Ribbed Pink Lady.

Which insert is right for me?

This is, without a doubt, the most frequenly asked question. Unfortunately there is no easy answer. Please consider several important factors:

Penis length/girth:
When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your girth as equally important to length. When erect, the average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of approximately 4-5 inches. Refer to the illustration on the left for an explanation of measuring length and girth. Use of a measuring tape is suggested for taking measurements. The correct measurement can make the difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight experience. Choosing too small of an insert diameter will result in discomfort during use, while too large of an insert diameter will be a less sensational experience.

Ranked from most tight to least tight: Super Tight, Wonder Wave/Speed Bump/Super Ribbed, STU, Original.

Larger than average men often choose: Original Pink Lady or Speed Bump
Smaller than average men often choose: Super Tight or Sex In A Can

Original options:
The first thing to consider is the Fleshlight insert color. This is an easy decision, just choose whatever color suits you best. When you choose the ice color, you are really selecting 'no color'. The lack of pigment leaves the ice inserts slightly stickier than the rest. Make sure to choose an ice case, if you decide on an ice insert.

Next, you will need to decide on the orifice, which is the external appearance of the Fleshlight insert. Choose the orifice that is the most visually appealing to you. The lady (vagina) is the most popular choice, followed by the butt. The Cheeks orifice is ideal for users that are looking to have a more realistic anal experience. The mouth is choosen by men who prefer the experience of a blowjob over the rest. However, there are a few minor differences to point out. The butt orifice is the thinnest of the three, letting you get to the texture sooner, and the lady has the largest opening allowing for easier access.

The final and most important step is to choose the correct sensation. Do you prefer a textured or smooth insert? How tight do you like it? Refer to the size chart above and descriptions below to help you to decide.

Fleshlight Girls options:
Get inside today's hottest adult stars. Stoya, Jenna Haze, Lisa Ann, Bibi Jones, Tori Black, Jessica Drake, Alexis Texas, Teagan Presley, Asa Akira, Jesse Jane, Misty Stone, Riley Steele, Tera Patrick, Kayden Kross, Katsuni, and Nina Hartley. Available in realistic flesh tone color with our popular Lotus texture or the all new unique signature line of textures. Each custom-molded Fleshlight Girls masturbation sleeve is an exact mold of each star's most intimate parts.

Remember that these are only suggestions that were developed based on sales records and customer testimonials. Explore our entire product line and post your testimonials on the Discussion Board along the way!

Which insert best simulates real sex?

We have something for everyone
With a variety of inserts and textures, it is possible to simulate a variety of sex methods. Below is a listing of the most favored match-ups:
Vaginal Sex: Wonder Wave Lady
Anal Sex: Super Tight Butt
Oral Sex: Super Ribbed Mouth
Most Intense:STU

I am a virgin. What do you recommend?

Advice for the new recruits
The Fleshlight is a great place to start and with over 5,000,000 sold, you are certainly not alone. We all started as virgins at one point. Making the transition from hand to Fleshlight will feel strange, but it's one step closer to having real sex. Use the Fleshlight as a means of practicing and familiarizing yourself to the act of intercourse. When the opportunity arises for real sex, you will be able to enjoy it more and worry less. With enough practice you will be able to last longer during sex. The biggest mistake you can make is giving up too quickly. It takes time to learn new tricks and get comfortable with it. The closest to the real thing you will get is the Wonder Wave Pink Lady. The vagina orifice is modeled off of a real vagina, and the inside waves give an added sensation. Make sure to use plenty of lube and warm your Fleshlight in warm water before use. Try different positions and some hands-free methods to further simulate real sex as much as possible.

I am uncircumcised. What do you recommend?

Many uncut men have expressed their love for the Fleshlight, with little to no problems at all. While using an adequate amount of lubricant is crucial for everyone, uncut men have stressed the importance that the more you use the smoother the experience. Uncut men tend to favor the STU and the Original Fleshlights. The STU is favored because it's texture is less pronounced and it feels gentler on the foreskin, especially on the way out. The Original is equally favored because it is completely smooth and the foreskin has less to get caught-up on. It's argued that the movement of the foreskin on the penis head is more sexually arousing than textures and requires less manual stimulation. Some uncut men have suggested the use of bands/rings or even a condom to keep the foreskin tightly pulled back. While this is suggested by some, this is certainly not necessary and use of a condom is never required.

What is the difference between the Fleshlights?

This is the insert that started it all! The Original Fleshlight canal is 3/4" (19 mm) diameter and untextured. By untextured we mean smooth. Due to it liberal size, well-endowed and uncircumcised men tend to prefer this insert. If you have aggressively masturbated with your hand for a long time, then you might have noticed a decrease in penis sensitivity. The Original is a great way to transition away from your hand and regain penis sensitivity.

Sex In A Can (SIAC)
The Sex In A Can is a lighter, smaller version of the Fleshlight that makes for easy carrying and storing. The inside canal is a 1/2" (13 mm) diameter and textured similar to the Wonder Wave, with the waves being fatter and slightly more separated. This is a good change for the frequent user who is well rehearsed with the full size Fleshlight. Not only is the insert tighter, but the orifice is smaller too. The SIAC can easily be controlled with just one hand and it's decreased weight makes it easier to maneuver and hold for long periods of time. The whole can itself measures about 7 inches (178 mm) in length, compared to the normal 10 inch (254 mm) Fleshlight case. The size of the SIAC makes it favored by less endowed men. An additional difference is that the bottom of the can has a hole in it, not a screw on cap. You can regulate the suction easily by covering it with your finger.

Speed Bump
The Speed Bump is more intense than the Wonder Wave, but less than the Super Ribbed. The texture of the Speed Bump is a repeating pattern of small bumps all evenly spaced along the length of the 1/2" (13 mm) diameter canal. This gives the user a consistent sensation of dozens of tiny tips gently massaging your penis as you glide in and out. The added height of the bump makes it the tightest of the textured inserts, measuring slightly under 1/2" (13 mm). Jokingly referred to by our users as the "Tunnel of Love".

Stamina Training Unit
Often compared to the Speed Bump, which also has a 1/2" canal diameter, the STU is designed to provide an extremely pleasurable and challenging venue for those seeking to practice techniques and improve sexual stamina. As you enter the STU you will notice the smooth pillowlike texture massaging your penis, however as you get closer to the point of no return (orgasm)your penis naturally expands increasing the sensation of the texture, and magnifying intensity. As the sensation increases, you can train yourself to resist the urge to orgasm or allow the pleasure to take over. The purpose of providing this challenge is to allow you to learn to recognize when you are going to orgasm and provide experience in delaying the process should you desire. The Speed Bump in contrast is an extreme sensation throughout the whole use, right from the start. The STU is also reported to feel a lot gentler than the enchanced inserts on uncut men, especially on the way out. The STU bumps rub you on the way in, but the ridges really grab your penis on the way out. The STU has been described as feeling like "little fingers" tickling your penis in an unbelievably intense way. The STU canal is 1/2" (13 mm) and has a completely unique texture. Currently not available separate from the case, you may however swap out other inserts into the case.

Super Ribbed
This insert is as intense as it gets! The 1/2" (13 mm) diameter canal is textured for maximum stimulation. Where the other inserts leave space between the textures, this insert features dozens of tightly packed soft ribs to keep your penis continuously stimulated. Be careful to not over lube this insert or you will lose the textured intensity.

Super Tight
When it comes to masturbating with the Fleshlight, some users demand realism while others prioritize sensation. The Super Tight appeals to the men seeking realism. The Super Tight insert is a smooth, untextured 1/2" (13 mm) diameter canal that is described as feeling "velvety smooth". The difference between the Super Tight and the Original Fleshlight is the decreased canal diameter. The Super Tight diameter is the same as the Speed Bump, Wonder Wave, and Super Ribbed, with the slight difference that the canal diameter is consistent from beginning to end, while the other three are tapered from larger to smaller. This also adds to the realism of the product when it comes to simulating sex. The Super Tight is most often paired up with the Butt orifice and used to simulate anal sex.

Wonder Wave
The first enhanced insert ever released, the Wonder Wave is the crowd favorite. The Wonder Wave canal diameter is 1/2" (13 mm) and textured with raised rings spaced approximately 1/2" (13 mm) apart. Less intense than the Super Ribbed and Speed Bump, the Wonder Wave was designed to most closely simulate the sensation of a woman's vagina. The Wonder Wave is perfect when paired up with the Lady orifice. There is a learning curve with the Wonder Wave and it sometimes takes a few sessions before some will truly enjoy it. The sensation of the Wonder Wave alternates between highs and lows, sending stimulating waves while pressing in and pulling out. That's how the insert got it's name, because it's a wave of pleasure that comes and goes. Long, slow strokes is described as the best way to use the Wonder Wave. It has also been suggested to use the Wonder Wave with the cap totally off or as little suction as possible.

The first of a new class of insert sleeves that feature not only incredibly stimulating textures, but also variance in canal diameter, the four spiraled chambers of the Vortex will bring you to dizzying pleasure. After over a year in development, this insert was designed to create a mesmerizing combination of suction, texture, and an unforgettable squeeze as you pass through each pleasure chamber. Already ranked as one of our most enjoyable inserts, whether you are an experienced customer or new to Fleshlight, the vortex will blow away your expectations.

In designing the Lotus texture, we had one goal in mind; to create the absolute most realistic vaginal intercourse sensation possible. The Lotus begins with our smooth ultra tight entry, then blossoms into a slightly wider, more comfortable canal, exactly like its human counterpart. An inverted node awaits a few inches inside, further adding to the complex fantasy as it simulates the subtle sensation of brushing the cervix. As a finale, four tightly spaced chambers await you at the end of the insert, built to provide the most sensitive part of your member with continued intense sensations. If you want to know what its like to have sex with your fantasy girl, nothing will bring you closer than the Lotus!

My question has still not be answered, who can I contact?

Most recommendations came from discussions and testimonials on the Discussion Board, read through it to find more user advice.

Or feel free to reach us by any method listed on the Contact Us page.

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