1. You're in control. Whenever you want, however you like, the Fleshlight sexual gratification alternative is there to fulfill your sexual fantasies and meet your desires. 2. Nothing is closer to the real thing. Our soft, pliable, non-vibrating Real Feel Super Skin® sleeve has been designed to provide the most realistic intercourse simulation known to man. 3. Improve stamina & performance. Whether you're a real Casanova or just a rookie to the game, there is always room for improvement. Test your skills, practice new techniques, and test how long you can last in one of our specially designed inserts, created for maximum sensation. 4. Practice safe sex. The Fleshlight was created in part, to address the risks associated with promiscuity, the spread of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), and unwanted pregnancy. Whether you're having trouble finding a safe partner or waiting for the right one to come along, the Fleshlight offers a a safe and satisfying means for expressing your sexuality. 5. Lifetime of pleasure. With proper use and care, the Fleshlight will last you a lifetime. If only it were that easy with real sexual partners. [top]
What are the dimensions of the Fleshlight and the inserts?
Fleshlight dimensions:
The Fleshlight case is approximately 10 inches (254 mm) in length and 4 inches (102 mm) in diameter at the larger end and 2-1/2 inches (63 mm)
at the smaller end. The Fleshlight case is offered in black, blue, pearl, silver, white and clear.
Help! I'm a first time buyer, what should I order?
Option 1:
With nearly half a million sold, 90% of our customers start out with the Original Pink Lady.
Option 2:
The 3 for 2 offer is a great way for new customers to quickly try a
variety of sex toy experiences. This offer takes the pressure off of
having to decide on just one Fleshlight. If you are undecided between
two insert types and don't know which to go with, then consider this
offer. You can get both and a third one, for free! Mix and match the
colors, orifices, and textures. This is also ideal for repeat customers
who already have a case and want to experience the rest of the inserts.
Consider choosing all ice inserts to help build your collection. Please
note that this special offer does NOT come with any cases, you must
purchase them separately.
Records show the most popular combo as:
Wonder Wave Pink Lady (intense)
Super Tight Mocha Butt (realistic)
Super Ribbed Clear Mouth (extreme)
Option 3:
The Build Your Own is ideal for customizing your fantasy. Build Your
Own allows the user to choose the color, orifice, and texture of their
Fleshlight. This offer INCLUDES a case. The most popular combinations
are the Wonder Wave Pink Lady and the Super Ribbed Pink Lady. [top]
Which insert is right for me?
This
is, without a doubt, the most frequenly asked question. Unfortunately
there is no easy answer. Please consider several important factors:
Penis length/girth:
When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your girth as equally
important to length. When erect, the average penis length is
approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of
approximately 4-5 inches. Refer to the illustration on the left for an
explanation of measuring length and girth. Use of a measuring tape is
suggested for taking measurements. The correct measurement can make the
difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight
experience. Choosing too small of an insert diameter will result in
discomfort during use, while too large of an insert diameter will be a
less sensational experience.
Ranked from most tight to least tight: Ultra Tight, Super Tight, Wonder Wave/Speed Bump/Super Ribbed, STU, Original.
Larger than average men often choose: Original Pink Lady or Speed Bump
Smaller than average men often choose: Super Tight or Sex In A Can [top]
Your options:
The first thing to consider is the Fleshlight insert color. This is an
easy decision, just choose whatever color suits you best. When you
choose the ice color, you are really selecting 'no color'. The lack of
pigment leaves the ice inserts slightly stickier than the rest. Make
sure to choose an ice case, if you decide on an ice insert.
Next, you will need to decide on the orifice, which is the external
appearance of the Fleshlight insert. Choose the orifice that is the
most visually appealing to you. The lady (vagina) is the most popular
choice, followed by the butt. The non-descript is ideal for users that
travel with their Fleshlight or someone who is concerned about family
members/roomates discovering their sex toy. The mouth is choosen by men
who prefer the experience of a blowjob over the rest. However, there
are a few minor differences to point out. The butt orifice is the
thinnest of the three, letting you get to the texture sooner, and the
lady has the largest opening allowing for easier access.
The final and most important step is to choose the correct sensation.
Do you prefer a textured or smooth insert? How tight do you like it? Refer
to the size chart above and descriptions below to help you to decide.
Remember that these are only suggestions that were developed based on
sales records and customer testimonials. Explore our entire product
line and post your testimonials on the Discussion Board along the way! [top]
Which insert best simulates real sex?
We have something for everyone
With a variety of inserts and textures, it is possible to simulate a
variety of sex methods. Below is a listing of the most favored
match-ups: Vaginal Sex: Wonder Wave Lady Anal Sex: Super Tight Butt Oral Sex: Super Ribbed Mouth Most Intense: Super Ribbed Butt [top]
I am a virgin. What do you recommend?
Advice for the new recruits
The Fleshlight is a great place to start and with over 1,000,000 sold,
you are certainly not alone. We all started as virgins at one point.
Making the transition from hand to Fleshlight will feel strange, but
it's one step closer to having real sex. Use the Fleshlight as a means
of practicing and familiarizing yourself to the act of intercourse.
When the opportunity arises for real sex, you will be able to enjoy it
more and worry less. With enough practice you will be able to last
longer during sex. The biggest mistake you can make is giving up too
quickly. It takes time to learn new tricks and get comfortable with it.
The closest to the real thing you will get is the Wonder Wave Pink
Lady. The vagina orifice is modeled off of a real vagina, and the
inside waves give an added sensation. Make sure to use plenty of lube
and warm your Fleshlight in warm water before use. Try different
positions and some hands-free methods to further simulate real sex as
much as possible. [top]
I am uncircumcised. What do you recommend?
Advice for the uncut man
Many uncut men have expressed their love for the Fleshlight, with
little to no problems at all. While using an adequate amount of
lubricant is crucial for everyone, uncut men have stressed the
importance that the more you use the smoother the experience. Uncut men
tend to favor the STU and the Original Fleshlights. The STU is favored
because it's texture is less pronounced and it feels gentler on the
foreskin, especially on the way out. The Original is equally favored
because it is completely smooth and the foreskin has less to get
caught-up on. It's argued that the movement of the foreskin on the
penis head is more sexually arousing than textures and requires less
manual stimulation. Some uncut men have suggested the use of
bands/rings or even a condom to keep the foreskin tightly pulled back.
While this is suggested by some, this is certainly not necessary and
use of a condom is never required. [top]
What is the difference between the Fleshlights?
Original
This is the insert that started it all! The Original Fleshlight canal
is 3/4" (19 mm) diameter and untextured. By untextured we mean smooth.
Due to it liberal size, well-endowed and uncircumcised men tend to
prefer this insert. If you have aggressively masturbated with your hand
for a long time, then you might have noticed a decrease in penis
sensitivity. The Original is a great way to transition away from your
hand and regain penis sensitivity. Previously, the only way to obtain
the Original was cased and by itself, but it's now available in the BYO
and 3for2.
Speed Bump
The Speed Bump is more intense than the Wonder Wave, but less than the
Super Ribbed. The texture of the Speed Bump is a repeating pattern of
small bumps all evenly spaced along the length of the 1/2" (13 mm)
diameter canal. This gives the user a consistent sensation of dozens of
tiny tips gently massaging your penis as you glide in and out. The
added height of the bump makes it the tightest of the textured inserts,
measuring slightly under 1/2" (13 mm). Jokingly referred to by our
users as the "Tunnel of Love".
Stamina Training Unit
Often compared to the Speed Bump, which also has a 1/2"
canal diameter, the STU is designed to provide an extremely pleasurable
and challenging venue for those seeking to practice techniques and
improve sexual stamina. As you enter the STU you will notice the smooth
pillowlike texture massaging your penis, however as you get closer to
the point of no return (orgasm)your penis naturally expands increasing
the sensation of the texture, and magnifying intensity. As the
sensation increases, you can train yourself to resist the urge to
orgasm or allow the pleasure to take over. The purpose of providing
this challenge is to allow you to learn to recognize when you are going
to orgasm and provide experience in delaying the process should you
desire. The Speed Bump in contrast is an extreme sensation throughout
the whole use, right from the start. The STU is also reported to feel a
lot gentler than the enchanced inserts on uncut men, especially on the
way out. The STU bumps rub you on the way in, but the ridges really
grab your penis on the way out. The STU has been described as feeling
like "little fingers" tickling your penis in an unbelievably intense
way. The STU canal is 1/2" (13 mm) and has a completely unique texture.
Currently not available separate from the case, you may however swap
out other inserts into the case.
Super Ribbed
This insert is as intense as it gets! The 1/2" (13 mm) diameter canal
is textured for maximum stimulation. Where the other inserts leave
space between the textures, this insert features dozens of tightly
packed soft ribs to keep your penis continuously stimulated. Be careful
to not over lube this insert or you will lose the textured intensity.
Super Tight
When it comes to masturbating with the Fleshlight, some users demand
realism while others prioritize sensation. The Super Tight appeals to
the men seeking realism. The Super Tight insert is a smooth, untextured
1/2" (13 mm) diameter canal that is described as feeling "velvety
smooth". The difference between the Super Tight and the Original
Fleshlight is the decreased canal diameter. The Super Tight diameter is
the same as the Speed Bump, Wonder Wave, and Super Ribbed, with the
slight difference that the canal diameter is consistent from beginning
to end, while the other three are tapered from larger to smaller. This
also adds to the realism of the product when it comes to simulating
sex. The Super Tight is most often paired up with the Butt orifice and
used to simulate anal sex.
Ultra Tight
Man, that's tight! Very similar to the Super Tight for the same reasons
mentioned above, but an even tighter canal. The Ultra Tight canal is
1/4" (10 mm) diameter and untextured. Meant for the men who like the
tightest sex penetration, but also preferred by men who have below
average girth. But don't let the tight diameter fool you! Average sized
men will have no problem, due to the extra stretchy, soft material used
on this and all other Fleshlights. The material will expand during
insertion as long as you remember to use plenty of lubrication.
Wonder Wave
The first enhanced insert ever released, the Wonder Wave is the crowd
favorite. The Wonder Wave canal diameter is 1/2" (13 mm) and textured
with raised rings spaced approximately 1/2" (13 mm) apart. Less intense
than the Super Ribbed and Speed Bump, the Wonder Wave was designed to
most closely simulate the sensation of a woman's vagina. The Wonder
Wave is perfect when paired up with the Lady orifice. There is a
learning curve with the Wonder Wave and it sometimes takes a few
sessions before some will truly enjoy it. The sensation of the Wonder
Wave alternates between highs and lows, sending stimulating waves while
pressing in and pulling out. That's how the insert got it's name,
because it's a wave of pleasure that comes and goes. Long, slow strokes
is described as the best way to use the Wonder Wave. It has also been
suggested to use the Wonder Wave with the cap totally off or as little
suction as possible.
Vortex
The first of a new class of insert sleeves that feature not only incredibly stimulating textures, but also variance in canal diameter, the four spiraled chambers of the Vortex will bring you to dizzying pleasure. After over a year in development, this insert was designed to create a mesmerizing combination of suction, texture, and an unforgettable squeeze as you pass through each pleasure chamber. Already ranked as one of our most enjoyable inserts, whether you are an experienced customer or new to Fleshlight, the vortex will blow away your expectations.
Lotus
In designing the Lotus texture, we had one goal in mind; to create the absolute most realistic vaginal intercourse sensation possible. The Lotus begins with our smooth ultra tight entry, then blossoms into a slightly wider, more comfortable canal, exactly like its human counterpart. An inverted node awaits a few inches inside, further adding to the complex fantasy as it simulates the subtle sensation of brushing the cervix. As a finale, four tightly spaced chambers await you at the end of the insert, built to provide the most sensitive part of your member with continued intense sensations. If you want to know what its like to have sex with your fantasy girl, nothing will bring you closer than the Lotus!
My question has still not be answered, who can I contact?
Most recommendations came from discussions and testimonials on the Discussion Board, read through it to find more user advice.
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